Chinese Girls REVEAL Asian Dating CULTURE SHOCK

Chinese matchmaker Iris explores the reasons why Asian women may choose to stay in China or relocate after marrying foreign men. Through a thoughtful approach, she uncovers valuable insights for intercultural couples facing similar situations. Factors such as supporting a foreign husband's career, an interest in Western culture, and family considerations play a significant role in the decision-making process of Asian women when it comes to relocation.

The rise of the Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement has led many men to seek international dating, particularly in places like Shenzhen, where Western men and Asian women (WMAF) relationships are becoming increasingly popular.

Chinese women represent a distinctive group actively pursuing intercultural dating, with many successful Asian girls solo-traveling to attend speed dating events in search of genuine connections. Many Chinese women even travel from nearby cities to participate in private Shenzhen matchmaking events, hoping to meet better bachelors among visiting foreigners.

The phenomenon of Sheng Nu or “leftover women”, reflects a societal issue in China where highly successful women struggle in the dating scene. Despite their career accomplishments, Chinese girls still desire emotional support and companionship. Some Asian women find the better bachelors from different cultures provide a more accepting space to meet those needs without the pressures of traditional Chinese expectations.

While many Chinese women consider their ambitions, family duties, and cultural values, challenges in adapting to life abroad can discourage some from relocating, even with international marriages. Many Asian girls realistically assess whether they can adjust to a new life in the West, and for some, the difficulties of making such a major change outweigh the potential for their dream of lasting connections.

Many Chinese women prefer the comfort of familiar cultural, linguistic, and social environments rather than facing the complexities of life in foreign countries.